{"id":1398,"date":"2024-07-10T13:53:35","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T13:53:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/?page_id=1398"},"modified":"2024-07-16T11:18:32","modified_gmt":"2024-07-16T11:18:32","slug":"he-tingut-diverses-relacions-de-maltracte-que-tinc-per-que-em-passa-a-mi","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/preguntes-i-respostes-violencies-masclistes\/he-tingut-diverses-relacions-de-maltracte-que-tinc-per-que-em-passa-a-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"He tingut diverses relacions de maltracte. Qu\u00e8 tinc? Per qu\u00e8 em passa a mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_section full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925658590{background-color: #f4f4ff !important;}&#8221;][vc_row gap=&#8221;35&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925704678{margin-top: -20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1721122561281{margin-top: -5px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #443697;\">He tingut diverses relacions de maltracte. Qu\u00e8 tinc? Per qu\u00e8 em passa a mi?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding: 56.25% 0 0 0; position: relative;\"><iframe style=\"position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%;\" title=\"2.4 Qu\u00e8 entenem per ciberassetjament\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/975176051?badge=0&amp;autopause=0&amp;player_id=0&amp;app_id=58479\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Segurament no ets l&#8217;\u00fanica persona que s&#8217;ha fet aquesta pregunta. <strong>Moltes vegades, quan tenim o encadenem diverses relacions que ens generen malestar, el primer que pensem \u00e9s que alguna cosa devem tenir: que som t\u00f2xiques, que el problema \u00e9s nostre, que som dependents emocionals o que no sabem gestionar les nostres emocions, com la gelosia. Aix\u00f2 no \u00e9s veritat.<\/strong> Res, absolutament res del que passa en una relaci\u00f3 de viol\u00e8ncia t\u00e9 a veure amb la teva personalitat. El que explica que encadenem relacions de maltracte \u00e9s que el masclisme \u00e9s molt present, de vegades amb expressions m\u00e9s visibles i de vegades m\u00e9s subtils.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9s cert que hi ha experi\u00e8ncies de vida, que poden fer que tinguem determinades dificultats en les nostres relacions. Ara b\u00e9, aix\u00f2 ni justifica, ni \u00e9s causa, ni explica la viol\u00e8ncia que est\u00e0s vivint.<\/strong> L&#8217;\u00fanic que ho pot explicar \u00e9s el patriarcat, el masclisme i la conducta de l&#8217;altre.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Les dones tendim m\u00e9s a preguntar-nos qu\u00e8 hem fet malament en una relaci\u00f3, a hiperresponsabilitzar-nos del que passa en els nostres vincles.<\/strong> Aix\u00f2 ens passa per com hem estat socialitzades, \u00e9s a dir, hem rebut missatges en relaci\u00f3 a les cures, al manteniment dels vincles i m\u00e9s missatges invalidadors que ens fan creure que no som suficients.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_btn title=&#8221;TOTES LES PREGUNTES&#8221; style=&#8221;outline-custom&#8221; outline_custom_color=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_background=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_text=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; size=&#8221;lg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; button_block=&#8221;true&#8221; 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