{"id":1416,"date":"2024-07-10T14:15:50","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T14:15:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/?page_id=1416"},"modified":"2024-07-16T11:30:48","modified_gmt":"2024-07-16T11:30:48","slug":"que-puc-fer-davant-de-les-red-flags-senyals-dalerta","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/preguntes-i-respostes-violencies-masclistes\/que-puc-fer-davant-de-les-red-flags-senyals-dalerta\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e8 puc fer davant de les red flags (senyals d&#8217;alerta)?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_section full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925658590{background-color: #f4f4ff !important;}&#8221;][vc_row gap=&#8221;35&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925704678{margin-top: -20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1721122709913{margin-top: -5px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #443697;\">Qu\u00e8 puc fer davant de les red flags (senyals d&#8217;alerta)?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding: 56.25% 0 0 0; position: relative;\"><iframe style=\"position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%;\" title=\"2.4 Qu\u00e8 entenem per ciberassetjament\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/975176863?badge=0&amp;autopause=0&amp;player_id=0&amp;app_id=58479\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<strong>El que anomenem <em>red flags<\/em> s\u00f3n aquelles senyals quan estem amb alg\u00fa o quan estem coneixent alg\u00fa que, d&#8217;alguna manera, ens fan saltar les alarmes i ens indiquen que aquella relaci\u00f3 o aquell vincle ens pot posar en risc emocional.<\/strong> \u00c9s a dir, que s\u00f3n senyals que d&#8217;alguna manera ens diuen que aquella possible relaci\u00f3 no ser\u00e0 del tot segura per a nosaltres. Per exemple, comentaris masclistes o que intu\u00efm que \u00e9s una persona que pot exercir control.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sovint aquestes senyals s\u00f3n coses molt petites, sobretot a l\u2019inici de les relacions. S\u00f3n una percepci\u00f3, una sensaci\u00f3 que pot despertar-se davant d\u2019actes molt subtils<\/strong>. Per aix\u00f2, moltes vegades davant d&#8217;aquesta senyals el que fem \u00e9s deixar d&#8217;escoltar les o no fer-los cas.\u00a0 Sobretot les dones per la nostra socialitzaci\u00f3 de g\u00e8nere femenina, estem acostumades a no confiar en les nostres pr\u00f2pies percepcions. Ens hem cregut que som exagerades, que som massa exigents amb els vincles, que no veiem les coses correctament i a no fer cas a aquestes senyals, des de l&#8217;esperan\u00e7a que pugui canviar o fins i tot des del nostre rol de cures que ens porta a col\u00b7locar-nos en un rol de ensenyar l&#8217;altre.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Has de saber que aquestes senyals, aquesta intu\u00efci\u00f3, \u00e9s important. \u00c9s all\u00e0 per protegir-te, per tant, l\u2019has d\u2019escoltar.<\/strong> <strong>Diguem que funcionen com una alarma d\u2019incendis.<\/strong> Les persones tenim una d&#8217;arma d&#8217;incendis al nostre cervell que s&#8217;activa quan estem d&#8217;alguna manera en perill. \u00c9s veritat que hi ha situacions de la nostra vida o de la nostra motxilla que poden fer que aquesta alarma d&#8217;incendis no acabi de funcionar del tot b\u00e9, \u00e9s a dir, o b\u00e9 que s&#8217;activi quan no hi ha perill o b\u00e9 que no s&#8217; activi davant de situacions en qu\u00e8 s\u00ed que ho hauria de fer. 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