{"id":1427,"date":"2024-07-10T14:22:18","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T14:22:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/?page_id=1427"},"modified":"2024-07-16T11:15:17","modified_gmt":"2024-07-16T11:15:17","slug":"com-vaig-poder-trigar-tant-a-adonar-me-que-havia-viscut-un-abus","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/preguntes-i-respostes-violencies-masclistes\/com-vaig-poder-trigar-tant-a-adonar-me-que-havia-viscut-un-abus\/","title":{"rendered":"Com vaig poder \u201ctrigar tant\u201d a adonar-me que havia viscut un ab\u00fas?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_section full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925658590{background-color: #f4f4ff !important;}&#8221;][vc_row gap=&#8221;35&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925704678{margin-top: -20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1721123986723{margin-top: -5px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #443697;\">Com vaig poder \u201ctrigar tant\u201d a adonar-me que havia viscut un ab\u00fas?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<div style=\"padding: 56.25% 0 0 0; position: relative;\"><iframe style=\"position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%;\" title=\"2.4 Qu\u00e8 entenem per ciberassetjament\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/975177499?badge=0&amp;autopause=0&amp;player_id=0&amp;app_id=58479\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<strong>En primer lloc, \u00e9s important que tinguis clar que pots decidir com afrontar el proc\u00e9s de recuperaci\u00f3 de les viol\u00e8ncies i \u00e9s important que pugui respectar el teu propi proc\u00e9s.<\/strong> Hi ha coses dels processos de recuperaci\u00f3 que s\u00f3n molt comunes i que s&#8217;assemblen molt perqu\u00e8 estem davant d\u2019una q\u00fcesti\u00f3 col\u00b7lectiva, per\u00f2 el proc\u00e9s de cada persona \u00e9s absolutament \u00fanic. No hi ha dos processos iguals.<\/p>\n<p>A m\u00e9s, <strong>et pot tranquil\u00b7litzar saber que el perqu\u00e8 triguem tant a identificar o a fer-nos conscients que el que hem viscut \u00e9s un ab\u00fas o viol\u00e8ncia, t\u00e9 una explicaci\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Els processos no s\u00f3n immediats.<\/strong> Fer-nos a la idea o fer-nos conscients que hem viscut viol\u00e8ncia o ab\u00fas, pot fer que el nostre impacte sentit o percebut canvi\u00ef i que es despertin una s\u00e8rie de malestars, dolor o fins i tot que s&#8217;activi alguna simptomatologia. <strong>Digu\u00e9ssim que ens en fem conscients quan, d&#8217;alguna manera, ho podem sostenir i ho podem afrontar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Una segona explicaci\u00f3 \u00e9s que, de vegades, la viol\u00e8ncia genera un estat de dissociaci\u00f3 o de xoc que tamb\u00e9 fa que no puguem posar-hi paraules i no puguem processar-ho com a ab\u00fas, viol\u00e8ncia o agressi\u00f3.<\/strong> \u00c9s una resposta del cos i de la nostra subjectivitat a aquelles situacions que superen la capacitat d&#8217;afrontament que tenim en un moment determinat. Quan no ho podem sostenir, el que fem de forma inconscient \u00e9s intentar mantenir aquest dolor al marge de la nostra vida i intentar que, aquest, no canvi\u00ef la nostra vida.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_btn title=&#8221;TOTES LES PREGUNTES&#8221; style=&#8221;outline-custom&#8221; outline_custom_color=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_background=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_text=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; size=&#8221;lg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; button_block=&#8221;true&#8221; link=&#8221;url:https%3A%2F%2Fassociaciopupila.org%2Findex.php%2Fpreguntes-i-respostes-violencies-masclistes%2F&#8221;][vc_btn title=&#8221;F\u00d2RUM&#8221; style=&#8221;outline-custom&#8221; outline_custom_color=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_background=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_text=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; size=&#8221;lg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; button_block=&#8221;true&#8221; link=&#8221;url:https%3A%2F%2Fassociaciopupila.org%2Findex.php%2Fforum%2F&#8221;][vc_btn title=&#8221;CONTACTE&#8221; style=&#8221;outline-custom&#8221; outline_custom_color=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_background=&#8221;#743199&#8243; outline_custom_hover_text=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; size=&#8221;lg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; button_block=&#8221;true&#8221; link=&#8221;url:https%3A%2F%2Fassociaciopupila.org%2Findex.php%2Fcontacte%2F&#8221;][vc_separator color=&#8221;custom&#8221; style=&#8221;shadow&#8221; border_width=&#8221;2&#8243; accent_color=&#8221;#3f3f3f&#8221;][vc_row_inner css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1720608929387{margin-right: 3px !important;margin-bottom: 30px !important;margin-left: 3px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_inner css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1720608650136{margin-right: 4px !important;margin-left: 4px !important;background-color: #443697 !important;border-radius: 10px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1720608769686{margin-right: 15px !important;margin-left: 15px !important;border-radius: 4px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Els Serveis d&#8217;informaci\u00f3 i atenci\u00f3 a les dones (SIAD),<\/strong> informen sobre salut, treball i habitatge, entre d\u2019altres.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>El Servei d&#8217;Intervenci\u00f3 Especialitzada en viol\u00e8ncia masclista (SIE)<\/strong> ofereix informaci\u00f3, atenci\u00f3 integral i recursos per a la recuperaci\u00f3 a les dones que han patit o pateixen viol\u00e8ncia, aix\u00ed com als seus fills i filles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dones.gencat.cat\/ca\/ambits\/atencio-a-les-dones\/mapa_siad\/\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Clica aqu\u00ed per a m\u00e9s informaci\u00f3<\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][\/vc_section][vc_section full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1720608631726{background-color: #743199 !important;}&#8221;][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719916983723{margin-top: 40px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719917225633{margin-right: 20px !important;margin-left: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color\" style=\"color: #121212; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">A trav\u00e9s del f\u00f2rum, pots compartir les teves experi\u00e8ncies i trobar suport entre iguals<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719917021949{margin-bottom: 50px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719917037358{margin-top: -10px !important;}&#8221;][vc_btn title=&#8221;PARTICIPA AL F\u00d2RUM&#8221; style=&#8221;outline&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; color=&#8221;white&#8221; size=&#8221;lg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; link=&#8221;url:https%3A%2F%2Fassociaciopupila.org%2Findex.php%2Fforum%2F&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][\/vc_section]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_section full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925658590{background-color: #f4f4ff !important;}&#8221;][vc_row gap=&#8221;35&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1719925704678{margin-top: -20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1721123986723{margin-top: -5px !important;}&#8221;] Com vaig poder \u201ctrigar tant\u201d a adonar-me que havia viscut un ab\u00fas? [\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text] [\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]En primer lloc, \u00e9s important que tinguis clar que pots decidir com afrontar el proc\u00e9s de recuperaci\u00f3 de les viol\u00e8ncies i \u00e9s important que pugui respectar el teu propi&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/preguntes-i-respostes-violencies-masclistes\/com-vaig-poder-trigar-tant-a-adonar-me-que-havia-viscut-un-abus\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Llegiu m\u00e9s &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Com vaig poder \u201ctrigar tant\u201d a adonar-me que havia viscut un ab\u00fas?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":869,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"off","neve_meta_content_width":100,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"on","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1427","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1427","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1427"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1427\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1591,"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1427\/revisions\/1591"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/869"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/associaciopupila.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1427"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}